Get these 3 main things together before starting a relationship : ( male and female)
*Financial State******Get your finances in order!! make sure your alright . nobody wants someone that can’t even do for themselves …..how would you benefit someone else?
*Emotional state******* Make sure your loving yourself first , clear your future of the past bullshit , keep it in the past .work on issues and fix them so you dont bring it in the next relationship .
*Physical state***** yes physical , no one is going to take care of your body but you ! if you have medical needs that need to be worked on (AKA high blood pressure etc … learn ways to take charge and control it if you can …It will allow you to set priorities in life ..you only have on physical life .So take care of yourself hun !